A word from beyond the veil

I once sat down and tried to imagine what my late mother would say to me if she could communicate with me in words. This is what I came up with:
Dear Stephen
The day I died was the day I was born.
The day I left was the day I arrived.
The day I left you was the day I joined my family and friends in the next world.
While you are mourning on earth, they are celebrating my arrival here.
I am doing both.
Torn between two worlds.
Luckily I don’t have to choose.
Luckily the choice has been made for me and for us.
No pain. Young body. Clear thinking.
An incredible lightness of being.
I so wish that I could simply click my fingers and say, “Sim Sala Bim” and erase your pain and grief.
You see, your grieving holds me back.
In fact, your grieving holds you back.
May I suggest that we simply let go and move on?
Sure in the knowledge that all is well.
That the universe is in order.
Let’s chat often.
Let’s remember each other forever.
Let’s be there for each other always.
I will be with you often, because from here, I can be.
And I promise to meet you and show you the ropes, when you arrive here.
Love and kisses from the other world.


About Stephen van Basten - The Marriage Expert

When you meet Stephen van Basten you instantly realize that there is more to him than meets the eye. This is not a moment to judge a book by its cover. Stephen boasts a list of achievements: He met his wife, Jacqui, 27 years ago, married her 21 years ago and is the proud father of a 'very together' 18 year old daughter. Stephen will immediately tell you with a twinkle in his eye, that Life, Work, Marriage and Parenthood are not for sissies. That while they are all hard work, they can be, and should be, incredibly rewarding and fulfilling. Stephen is a past Karate World Champion, a yoga enthusiast and recovering golfer. If you opened Trip Advisor on his facebook page you will see that he has visited 81 cities in 52 countries including the USA, Alaska, Japan, Europe, Australia and China. Stephen has owned his own company, worked in his family's business, being employed by small and large businesses like Shell SA and the BTG Group. His titles include Brand Manager, Sales Manager, Account Manager, Sales Representative and Business Owner. He now sees himself as an Author, Speaker, Trainer and Coach. Stephen published his first book, "So you're engaged, now what? The journey from engaged to married" in December 2013. His ingenious marketing strategy put this book into over 2000 hands in its first 6 months. His second book "So you're alive, now what? The journey from birth to death" is available online and he is working on 5 more books in the series including "So you're married, now what?". Stephen's obvious passion and first love is Human Behavior and specifically Human Behavior as it manifests in RELATIONSHIPS. He is quick to point out that we have many differing relationships: employer, employees, customers, suppliers, colleagues, friendships, marriage, parents, siblings, children, our maker, other drivers on the roads and we generally have issues in most if not all of them. Stephen is a student of the well-known human behavior specialist, Dr. John Demartini and is constantly researching and honing his understanding of this incredibly complex subject. In 2013 he completed over 175 hours of intense training on T. Harv Eker's signature courses.
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