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Author Archives: Stephen van Basten - The Marriage Expert
I am often confronted by the beauty of the wedding vows and the cold reality of the current divorce rate. I have often wondered if in fact, the wedding vows may be part of the problem. You see, we vow … Continue reading
What if heaven is the default? [this is a thought. A hypothesis. An attempt at challenging paradigmes. IT DOES NOT MEAN I BELIVE IN THE HEAVEN AND HELL MODEL] [I speak of God here as He. That does not mean … Continue reading
Entitlement vs Fulfilment We certainly are living in interesting times. The world is in such turmoil. Old paradigms being challenged every day. Some violently some peacefully. Currently one of the ugly words out there (especially in SA) is … Continue reading
Firstly, please accept my condolences on the passing of your loved one. The fact that you are reading this probably means you are mourning the passing of someone special. I am truly sorry for your loss. I have been performing … Continue reading
Compromise and the big “R” I have spent hours and hours with hundreds of couples as well as the hundreds of hours in my own relationships and the word I hate the most is ‘compromise’. When I ask couples what … Continue reading
Our programming is our greatest curse. I AM ALSO A VICTIM OF APARTHEID. I was born into a racist system. I was programmed to believe I was superior. I was programmed to believe that others were inferior. My (well meaning) … Continue reading